It was 1 am in the night and after a lot of discussion… my wife gave me a revelation…
If your spouse or loved one spoke too highly of someone too many times or was spending too much time with someone of your gender… What would be the first question about that person that would come to your mind???
How does she look? What does he do for living? What is her designation? How wealthy is he? How well built is he? Is she very fun to be with?….
That question… Reveals more about… what you are insecure about yourself… than what you doubt about your spouse or loved one!!! — feeling enlightened.